In the studio of the show "With an Open Heart" by author and moderator Evis Ahmeti, the story of the 50-year-old woman from Elbasan returned, who for the second time in a row comes to confess the violence and arguments with her ex-husband.
Even though they have been separated for six years, she says the clashes have not ended. According to her, the tensions, insults and accusations continue to this day, making it impossible to find the peace she thought she would find after the divorce.
The 50-year-old says that her ex-husband has not stopped verbally and psychologically attacking her, while conflicts between them often escalate into fierce arguments. She confessed that the legal separation did not end the fear and anxiety that have accompanied her for years. According to her, every attempt to set boundaries and protect herself has encountered new opposition and tension. In this second confession, the 50-year-old brings other details from the troubled relationship, emphasizing that psychological violence is still present in her life. But on the other hand, the ex-husband, in a communication with the show's staff, stated that all these accusations are fabricated and fabricated. He categorically denied that he had exercised violence against his ex-wife.
"I have never cheated on her. We even had a confrontation in court. Never, ever! She got divorced, I didn't. She wanted to break up the family, not me. I had no plan to break up the family, she continued. And the judge told me; the lady will get a divorce, let it be. She said; listen, you are accusing her of cheating and the others catch her with her lover and don't break up the family. You are destroying it. The judge said this confidentially. I have never had a relationship with anyone else. I have had legal marriages, in Indonesia and in Kosovo.
After the divorce with Aida. Aida has separated, she has seen her own life, I take care of the children. She thought her sister would take care of her in Brussels, and she ended up in an asylum. I convinced the children to bring her home, I helped her, because a woman covered in a headscarf could not stay in an asylum. I have never raped her, ever. You have to prove everything. Mrs. Aida has not worked a single day. Where did she get the money from her parents? Nothing. They threw the money in the name of her own son. They gave it to her brother as a gift. I do not deny that she contributed to the house. Take care of the children, I do not deny it. But she says; "I gave so many million lek to Ardian". Where did she find it. It was very good. I do not know how this business of separations got to her. She always told me; you will see when the children grow up.
Maybe she was inspired by her sister in Belgium, I don't know. I haven't accused her of treason. I'm saying this about the children's mother. She does 99 dirty things, fights with the children. I tell her that she behaved as she wanted with me, but she behaved well with her mother. I have no complaints about her when she was my wife. She asked for a divorce. I took her wherever she wanted to go. When we were at the hoxha Ahmeti (Ahmed Kalaja), it started with claims, and she asked for 1 thousand euros. He said to her, excuse me for the expression; You are a woman, right! Even a richer lover, to ask for 1 thousand euros, wait a minute! He is working hard, he is answering to the children. You are asking for this much?! This is not right," said the imam.
Meanwhile, the ex-wife was surprised by his statement and claimed that he was lying. The lady said that every word of her ex-husband was a lie.
